A fair share of our bookings come from couples visiting Amsterdam, often on an anniversary weekend or a trip they have talked about for months. Many are doing it for the first time.
Why Couples Invite Someone In
For some it is curiosity, a fantasy that has come up in conversation for years and has finally found the right setting.
Others want to watch each other enjoy something new, or to share a sensual massage without either partner having to do the work.
And for many, a city far from home simply makes it easier: nobody they know, a lovely hotel room and a companion who has done this before and puts them both at ease.
Bookings That Work for Two
Couples erotic massage is the gentlest start: she massages you in turn or together, and the evening can stay sensual or go further as you both decide.
Body-to-body and Nuru sessions for two bring more contact and suit couples who already know they want something physical.
A shared girlfriend experience feels more like a date for three, with drinks, conversation and closeness that builds at its own pace.
Some couples begin with dinner together and only decide at the table how the night continues; ask us about that format when you write.
Whichever you choose, she is told beforehand that she is meeting a couple, so nobody is caught off guard at the door.
Choosing Her Together
Look through the gallery side by side rather than one of you picking alone. A woman you both find attractive takes much of the tension out of the evening.
Personality matters as much as looks. Say whether you would like someone playful and outgoing or calm and attentive, and whether she should focus on one of you more than the other.
Our coordinators know which women enjoy couples bookings and have done them before, so ask for a shortlist if you are unsure.
If the woman you both like is busy on your date, we will suggest someone similar rather than leave you to start again.
Talking It Through Beforehand
The couples who enjoy these evenings most are the ones who agreed on everything before the first message was sent.
Sit down together a day or two before booking and talk honestly. A few questions help:
- What is each of you hoping for, and are those hopes the same or different?
- Does anything make one of you nervous, and can it be settled before she arrives?
- What would turn this from something you go along with into something you are both looking forward to?
- How will you check in with each other during the evening, and what is the signal to slow down or stop?
Share the answers with us in your booking message. The more we know, the better we can match a companion and brief her.
How a Couples Booking Works
Arranging it takes a few messages, usually all within the same hour.
- Write to us on WhatsApp and say that the booking is for a couple
- Give us the date, start time, length of booking and your hotel with room number
- Describe the kind of evening you want and anything either of you would rather avoid
- Look through the women we suggest and choose together
- Receive confirmation along with her expected arrival time
- Set the room up, open a bottle and relax until she knocks
She arrives 45 to 60 minutes after confirmation, and every part of Amsterdam is within reach.
Getting the Most From the Night
One companion with a couple costs EUR 360 per hour, and that is the full amount for the time booked. Two hours is the length most couples choose, since the first part of the evening is usually about getting comfortable.
Let her guide the start. She has done this before and knows how to include both partners so that nobody ends up a spectator.
Keep checking in with each other through a look or a word. Pausing is always fine.
Afterwards, talk about how it went while it is still fresh; many couples find that conversation is half the fun.
Hoping to see her again on a later visit? Mention her name and we will check her calendar.